Hello Leuna: I don't know that I have much of anything to offer with regard to this. But I saw no one had replied to your post. So I thought I would. I'm sorry you are feeling so lonely. I'm an older person & pretty reclusive at this point in my life. But I am married. And being older I think being without any other family or friends is easier. I know, when I was young, having other people around me was more important.

I can't speak to the question of whether or not having ADHD makes it more difficult to find love. It does seem to me finding that one right person is simply more difficult nowadays than it was back when I was young. Back in the day, as they say, I don't think most of us ever even really thought about it. Relationships just sort-of happened. At least that's how I recall it.

Anyway, I didn't have any particular suggestions to offer you here. I just simply thought I would share what occurred to me reading your post.