Hmm, tricky question.
One of us planned to be a vet, one planned to be a prostitute, one planned to be dead, one planned never to grow up, one planned to stay with our abusers, one planned to be free, one planned....
I think you get the picture!
Some of it is still the same, some of it is different. (Progress is never as fast as we want it to be).

I like your questions too much. Same question for the next person.