Your mother played a strange role in your gender identity development by treating you like a boy, telling you to man up. You should explore more about that. Do you think she influenced you? Or do you think she treated you like a boy as a reaction to you naturally being a very tomboyish girl?

Are you attracted to men at all?

There are women who are perceived as being very strong.

Do you relate to being a lesbian?

What if you were on a deserted island and didn't have to worry about clothes or people's opinions?