had to laugh - not at your feelings/frustrations, but because I can relate and empathize w/this! For the longest time, antidepressants held my bipolar libido at bay, some killed my sex drive entirely. Now that my meds seem to be a good fit for this time of my life, I have been surprised by the return of desire.

Thank god I can control it now, because even the buttoned-up engineers at work (nice men, but more cerebral than physical), with their conservative hair and dad pants, are looking prrrreeettty good....