I'm trying to crack down on people manipulating me. My uncle have me for my birthday a piece of property he currently lives on. He said we would live with him for awile to get things established, then he would move away next spring.

But first has pressuring us to move asap. Second, now he wants us to live with a third person, saying the guy needs a place to live. This set up my manipulation flag so badly I threw things around and tried to cut myself. .
Now I'm trying to use "Wise Mind" from therapy, my uncle tries to help everyone, but he can be manipulative also... how to procede?