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Originally Posted by Brown Owl
I could have written this post. I too feel that if my T would share some simple not particularly personal stuff with me then I would feel I could connect. I don't know why she doesn't. I've wondered whether it is lack of confidence on her part, or that she doesn't particularly like me, or is it just her style? I'm quite close to quitting because of it. I also wish she would say something nice.
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Sorry that you are going through this too! In my case, I feel like it's just her style. I do think that she likes me and cares about me and I don't think that it's a confidence thing.
I too feel close to quitting. I think that I'm going to give it one more session and pretty much tell her all that I've written hear and see what she says. I'd especially like to know if the thinks that a fresh start with someone else would be good for me or if she thinks that we can work this out. I would really appreciate a small compromise on her part rather than me trying to just deal with it as I've tried for the past 2 years and it just doesn't work for me. I need someone that is a little more human in order to feel a connection.