The good news is your actions are speaking for you! You are showing promise by not using so no wonder your boyfriend and his ex are willing to give you a chance. It's a thin line you have to walk, no doubt about it. Early recovery is treacherous, so many pitfalls like the possible hookups you mentioned. What can you do to reduce the potential pitfalls, the inevitable bumps in the road that will happen? Life is full of that kind of stuff! What can you do right now to be proactively planning your "plan B's" for the kind of things that just fall in your lap unexpectedly? These are the kinds of things that support groups talk about to help you prepare for the temptations and bad days. Want to google "women in recovery" and see if any online reading will help?