I don't really believe that there is such a thing as someone being simply easy or difficult. It probably depends in what sense/situation/area and also changes over time.
But if I want to answer, I think on the surface and initially I may seem like a rather easy client: I talk easily and in detail about a wide variety of topics and issues, I think I am generally respectful (unless something is really off), curious, seemingly agreeable. But my experience is that as time goes by, the Ts tend to run into solid walls with me that are hard to see through and penetrate (similar in ordinary relationships). I can also be quite stubborn and sometimes avoidant. I can also be quite challenging at times and direct in ways that is not sugar coated at all, my first (rather insecure) therapist certainly did not take that easily and got very defensive often. So, I don't really know. They both expressed that they liked working with me and that I am very engaging but I also sometimes feel they don't know what to do with me at times.
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