My recent ex boyfriend lives 2hrs away. He called and talked about moving into a new place. He will get all of his stuff and his wonderful pug by the end of September. I had to hold back tears while at a restaurant, since he was talking about moving physically and emotionally. He asked if he could come visit. It was so hard for me but I said no...he would just do what he always does: list all my flaws and mistakes which makes me upset. He now gets mad when I cry so I saw no reason for him to visit. I'm now crying and hurting.. he broke my heart. I don't deserve this...my life is shot.