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Originally Posted by divine1966
Have you ever been tested? Do full psych evaluation with a psychologist. See a psychiatrist etc get to the bottom of it
You have college degree so it's unlikely you are cognitively impaired ( let's not call people including yourself "slow"). You can improve you social skills in therapy ( which you refuse to try). You regularly attend gym so I doubt you are that uncoordinated. I doubt you are clumsier than me and my husband. We can't even walk around our own house not bumping on things.
Who looks down on you and what evidence of that do you have?
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My friends from work for example clearly have no respect for me. They keep me around out of the kindness of their hearts, but my presence doesn't actually matter to them. Because of this they are very quick to show disapproval for anything I say, even the most innocent things. Others whom they value more, they will cut them a lot more slack. People will say much more offensive things and they will let it slide. I keep making the mistake of thinking oh if I am more careful not to say anything offensive or embarrassing they will not get upset with me, but the fact is it isn't about what I say or do, it is about the fact that they do not value me at all. They think they are doing me a favor by hanging out with me. Obviously if you are doing someone a favor you expect more from them. Well **** that.
Funny, when I was younger I was insecure about my looks. Now I realize my looks are probably my main strong point. I actually notice girls often seem to be attracted to me when they see me and don't know me. But then after they get to know me they lose all interest.