I agree that if a woman is wearing headphones it is probably not a good idea to approach her, but I don't agree with this new feminist idea that men shouldn't approach women in general. I recently decided to summon up the courage and approached this girl who works at the gym who always seemed super friendly. Turns out she is interested. She asked me to add her on facebook. The keyboard crusader feminists are always hammering ideas into our heads that we shouldn't approach girls at work, shouldn't approach girls at the gym, shouldn't approach girls out of our league, shouldn't approach younger girls, etc. Well my approaching this girl actually breaks all of those rules. It actually turns out she is a few years OLDER than me, but before I approached her I assumed she was like 5 years younger than me. If had obeyed the advice of the internet feminists, I would still be walking around with my head down trying not to smile too much lest a girl gets the impression I am interested in her.

Just fyi, I posted about this girl a while back and several people on here basically insisted that I should leave her alone and join a dating site. Thanks for the wonderful advice.

And please, no crap about how "she doesn't like you, she is just being nice because she is at work and has no choice". Trust me, if she wasn't making it painstakingly obvious that she is interested, I would not believe that a girl like this would be interested in me.