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Originally Posted by leomama
Exactly, at this point my mother is just straight up psychologically abusive to my father and since they've been together so long its impossible to separate.
Now that I've recovered from my childhood I can have empathy for my father and I can recognize things like telling me I should be at the top of my career are stemming from his narcissism and are not a reflection on me.
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My parents can't really separate at this point in their livers either. So they're stuck with each other. I don't have any animosity towards them. Not anymore anyways. When I did I completely trashed both of their reputations and tore apart our entire family in less than a year. And I psychologically ripped them both to shreds with a level of sadism that has caused my mother to realize that it's not wise to play with me, and my father is straight up terrified of me. Why did I do it? Pfft, they deserved it. So did the rest of my family that felt my wrath.
Nothing a narcissist says to/about you is ever personal, it's entirely about them. They're the kings and queens of projection. Nobody projects quite like a narcissist.