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Originally Posted by Atypical_Disaster
My parents can't really separate at this point in their livers either. So they're stuck with each other. I don't have any animosity towards them. Not anymore anyways. When I did I completely trashed both of their reputations and tore apart our entire family in less than a year. And I psychologically ripped them both to shreds with a level of sadism that has caused my mother to realize that it's not wise to play with me, and my father is straight up terrified of me. Why did I do it? Pfft, they deserved it. So did the rest of my family that felt my wrath.
Nothing a narcissist says to/about you is ever personal, it's entirely about them. They're the kings and queens of projection. Nobody projects quite like a narcissist.
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I prepared myself to see my parents by becoming the terminator and I actually had a good time. Its my mom that's really the problem, not my dad.
I'm glad you pointed that about my dad as he really hurt me when he said that. Recently he hurt my daughter too when he said she's a train wreck waiting to happen. Then I told that to her godmother and she said she's already a train wreck. I was kind of taken aback by that. That didn't seem very compassionate.