People like that are a dime a dozen and obnoxious as ****. I think such individuals would do well with a real look in the mirror(this is also known as competent therapy).

I can only be myself. I've learned from a lifetime of lying that said lying isn't always the most satisfying way to interact with others. So sometimes, I lower my mask. I am aware of myself in a way these people aren't. I know who and what I am and all the implications thereof.

Denial is a way to slowly kill anyone's mind. There's so many ways to die that don't involve a physical death at all.

I can tell you're very emotionally sensitive. But that very sensitivity can indeed be your best weapon in dealing with people like this who are trying to prey upon you.