It's crazy if so called experts say that a woman should never call a man. That's nuts. I hope you aren't listening to such experts.

I think in general many would advice do not always call a man if he never calls you. Pretty much don't pursue a man if he isn't reciprocating . Like if a woman is the only one who always calls it's a sign the guy isn't interested and it's a waste of time and her dignity BUT if it's give and take and partners just call each other then who is to say it's wrong?

Nowadays both partners have equal power in a relationship. It's not 1800s. If you two are involved in a relationship and are on the same page then it's all what matters regardless who calls who