I was wondering if there's a way for us to only be able to occupy one chat room at a time?

It's a bit frustrating and confusing to be sitting in a room and watching the stylus move on one of the avatars (signaling that they are typing something to say) waiting for them to finish only to have it not even be posted in the room I'm currently occupying/participating in but being posted in another room they're simultaneously occupying/participating in.

For instance I was in the Coffeehouse Saturday night and Bi-Polar chat was occurring at the same time ... A poster in Bi-Polar chat was chatting there, but the pencil was moving in the Coffeehouse as if they were going to post in the Coffeehouse, so I sit there waiting patiently for them to finish and post so I won't be rudely interrupting whatever it is they have to say to only have them not even post their text in the Coffeehouse but in Bi-Polar instead.

I guess I could simply ignore the fact that they aren't actually participating in the room I'm in, but it takes a while to figure that out, so I'd like to know is if there's a way for when we leave one room to go to another that it automatically removes us as occupying/participating in that room we've just left and places us in the room we're actually occupying/participating in instead of the one we're not?

Thanks,
Pfrog!