shygirl,

i am speaking for myself right now. i understand your frustration, and its not my intention to minimize what this guy has done to you, but honestly what do u expect anyone else to do about it? yes it is unacceptable behavior but as u said he is an adult and so are u. no one can correct his behavior but himself and thats if he even wants to. i wasn't brushing it it off as "boys will be boys" because i have 2 sons and my husband and i are doing our best to raise them with values. if they were to treat a woman that way i would not excuse their behavior because of their gender.