You know bear? Sometimes you are really a deep thinker!!
I grew up like many ppl in a black and white world. I learned differently through training. Then, with my injury it all went black...and then a bit of white showed up. Now, with T's help, I've just about learned about grey again!
It is worth it. It isn't easy, a constant struggle, a constant "in your face" contradiction to what you "think" you know to be truth!