Maybe it's, like, extremely uncomfortable not to man-spread? Maybe asking men not to do it is like asking women to do that double-cross at thigh and ankle thing? Insidious social control?

As much as I really wish my T would bring those knees a little closer together, I don't want him to spend the entire session thinking "My balls are sweaty," either.

I just don't want to think about my T's balls, period.