Let me guess. This is one of the church acquaintances that you have been repeatedly asked to stop pursuing?

They were never your close friends. You bothered them to the point that the pastor had to intervene and ask you to cease and desist.

You post the same problems with the same people over and over again. You never respond directly to anything anyone posts to you here. You post the same things on several different forums other than PC. Not sure why I bother.