Thanks. I donīt have that many friends and the ones I have are around my age. I wish I had a female older friend who could be a bit like a mother figure to me but that isnīt so easy to find as it isnīt that normal to "advertise" for mother figures online.
My own mom shows interest in me, we call each other almost daily but we live far from each other and when I sometimes visit her I donīt feel that deep connection to her. My dad has been more or less out of the picture since many years ago, almost no emotional connection there.
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Originally Posted by -jimi-
People don't realize this, but love does not only needs a transmitter but also a receiver. Some people simply have a hard time to make connections and feel the love that is there.
Of course I'm not saying it is your problem, but with some people it IS the problem.
I seek semi father figures in friends sometimes. Why? Because my dad is a bad dad and I look for another one? NO. Because he is a pretty good dad and I look for his positives in other people, and it is sometimes nice to have people give another perspective based on age.
What ages are your friends? I only have ONE single friend my own age, the others are older or younger.
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