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So, I had my session last night. First when I get there, a woman comes out of his office (client) and says 'bye John'...(made up name).

What?? I call him Dr. Blah and she's calling him John?? We had a thread on here about this before and at the time, I never heard a client refer to him by name...

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I would have knocked her out. Did I just say that? Um, I mean I would have smiled and said hello. Yeah. That's it. Sure. You can do one better-- next week say hello to him by a nickname... "Hey, what's up J-MAN!!" Can you imagine?

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Anyway, upon further analysis by me, the connection I am making is that I am avoiding the 'hard work' of therapy because it is 1) painful, 2) hard for me to talk about (transference stuff)and completely up to me when this gets resolved.

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Did you tell him this? It sounds like you did a lot of hard work so far... especially last session... don't beat the crap out of yourself yet... I think you're doing a great job. We can't always go so deep every single session, you know? It's exhausting.