I agree, I enjoy the grey when I'm there, and especially when I realize I am there!

Black and white means that there's a cause and a reaction, there's a reaction and a fault.
Grey means this is part of life, some times things just happen.

Black and white means something needs to be done and I have to do my best, my best isn't good enough and I've failed.
Grey means there's an opportunity if I wish to try, and whatever I do is just fine.

IDK does any of that make sense to you Fuzzy?