Two biopsies and no cancer? That's good. You KNOW they pulled biopsies from the areas they thought looked "most" cancerous!
No, it's not the best news ever...but still...
What are the options at this point (((Bebop))) What else can make the bladder go south like that, dyk?
TC of yourself in all this, remember! That's not being selfish, you HAVE to keep your boundaries of self care hon!