If I was in your situation with my ex-T, I would put up with the cr*p just to be with her. So I do understand. But from the outside looking in, your relationship with your T seems to have already ended. It's not healthy. I'm sure if you saw one of us in a similar situation you'd suggest finding another T. Try out the new one you just saw. It might be the right T at the right time.

And as far as experience goes... My counselor at the crisis house I was in a couple years ago was awesome. She wasn't even licensed yet to do her own practice. I got so much out of seeing her for those couple of hours. And when ex-T left me, I called up the crisis house to talk to her again, and again she helped me out a ton. Experience isn't everything.