I don't know.

All I know is I was having a melt down and he was there for me and listened and then we had fun hanging out.

I understand - leopards don't often change their spots.

Music is HIS passion - I love it, but not in the same way. It is beautiful (and I guess appealing!) to hear someone talk about their passion in that way. Although I guess most of my boyfriends and lovers have had some musical inclination, whether hiphop / mc ing or rock or other electronica.

Sigh ...

He is in hotel management for a day job ... he has smarts too ... he has been through a lot.

Thank you for your words and thoughts Alex, you have given me another perspective I need to consider.

xx