I've had similar problems in the past. I've been through enough therapy to know what works and what doesnt. And usually I can tell within the first visit if it will not work. I give a new therapist up to three days for me to feel at ease and comfortable with him/her and know that he/she will help me with my problems that brought me into therapy in the first place. How I look at it, if I'm paying I want my money's worth. There's no problem with looking for another therapist. If that is how you are able to grow as a person, then so be it IMO. Either way, do what you think is best for you. Take care.