I think that some ts can have 5 or 15 years experience and still be crap, experience doesn't mean they have done their work. I know some ts who have twenty years experience and I wouldn't send my cat to them.
I hope you go to see her for just one session because anyone would be better than you're own t right now.
I generally don't like t bashing but I would really like to bash yours over the head with a sledge hammer