WC-
I don't think you wrote too much and I'm glad you shared. It really does sound like you're stuck in this situation, and when anything jeopardizes your sanity...I'm the first one to say get rid of anything that is bothering you. But this is family, so it makes things difficult. It's like me and my mom, I'm happy to have her stay here if she needs to for financial reasons, but my mood gets so low I don't know if I can do it again. But she's my mom! I wouldn't be alive if it not were for her. Your situation is way more complicated and stressful. I wish I had some amazing advice for you, but I do empathize with you. I hope it somehow is resolved, if possible. Please take care of yourself.