Interestingly, she'll play it cool with me now. She used to get super psycho with it in the beginning, on her bad days she would tell everyone I stole her husband, on the good days she owned why they'd split 1 year before i even met him. But there is no talking to her, she's polite but as far as she's concerned thats as far as it'll go.

I told him today that if this was a preview of what was to come, I needed to reevaluate, to which he got mad.

What do you mean by him needing to find out where his boundaries are? And if that means he thinks that whole part of his life is absolutely none of my business, is that supposed to be acceptable?