Thanks everyone here for your responses. It’s comforting to know I’m not just completely overreacting.
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Originally Posted by Sarmas
Reading this sounds exactly like my ex T. I went through the exact same thing but I wasn't as brave as you to begin with yo voice it. It happened over and over again. I started out getting 60 min but she will say that it's a 50-60 min session. I have seen other go overboard as I sat there for two appointments waiting for My kids T to finish. I finally brought it up because it was getting out of hand and I also felt disrespected and wondering who else she does it to. I saw that she wasn't as lax with others. I finally brought it up and she got defensive and justified how she was right and how she made up the time. I think we as clients will pay more particular attention to detail and look at specific times. I know I was counting down. I know my T did not give me my full time and it seemed as if she was rushing to get the next appointment in. In the four years I was seeing her she didn't go over during my session either. It's awful feeling with these things happen but I would suggest communicating that with her so that it doesn't occur again.
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I'm so sorry you went through this too, and that your T didn't react well.
I don’t know how to voice it. I guess I will raise it next session. The thing is my feelings are very changeable. And I have severe social anxiety. My T knows I would never dare to confront someone I felt badly treated by. I hate to think that she’s taking advantage of this.