I completely get that. I hated being young sometimes, because everyone seemed to want to just drink til they got almost unconscious and screw around and talk about stuff I couldn't relate to. It's hard finding the right group of people, and I hope you do. It's easier now I'm older. Now I'd be happier saying thanks for the invite but it's not my thing, and not caring whether they thought less of me for not being into beer and sports.