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Originally Posted by p00dlez
I am not sure why but people just don't like me. No matter what I try to do to please people, they just don't like me. It makes me a bit sad, but I am getting to the point where I might just give up and never try to make any friends again. I mean why bother, they aren't going to like me anyway. Maybe I am better off alone instead of facing rejection over and over. It cant be good for my mental health to be rejected over and over and to be upset about it. I give up.
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That's exactly me.
I don't have any advice, but I chose to be alone instead of possibly facing rejection over and over. I know that's not the best choice I could have made, but I can only handle so much rejection and I feel like I need to "protect" myself.
But anyway, some people can be downright mean no matter what you do. They just find reasons to hate you; it's like it's part of their personality or something. So those sorts of people I ignore because they're obviously only interested in making themselves feel better by putting others down. I don't care for people who are disrespectful like that.
I just choose not to make strong bonds with people anymore. This way if I get rejected, it doesn't affect me as much. I'm like, "oh well. We weren't great friends anyway. No real loss here."