Blessings to you. Hoping this all turns out the way you want it to turn out. I am glad the VA is helping you. MY FIL died 5 years ago and my MIL is entitled to some sort of benefits. She's 88 and their idea of homebound is actually bedbound. She has rec'd nothing in all this time even though we've appealed and appealed. You are very blessed they are so helpful to you. Very blessed.