OK... I'm sure many would throw stones at me for this or WISH they had this issue, but I am at my wit's end.



My BF has a VERY high sex drive, and I thought I was doing OK in that department, but I CAN'T.GET.A.BREAK!!!! Literally!!

I can be on my cycle, and he wants to get a towel because HE doesn't mind. Well, it's not a cleanliness thing with me. I typically don't feel my sexiest during that time. Most of the time I don't even want to be TOUCHED.

It gets worse. As a result of ALL of the action we've been getting in, I have developed vaginitis (most likely a reaction to the condoms). I have literally had fire between my legs for the past few days. I've been taking meds, but the best remedy is to keep that area clear until the infection clears up.

It's been TWO DAYS and he's whining! I've offered alternative methods of pleasure, but he says he doesn't enjoy that (what PLANET is this guy from), and we got into this huge fight because he doesn't believe me!

He thinks I'm lying!! I even showed him my pH results (I'm at a 7 when normal range should be 4.6).

In one breath he says he doesn't want me to just do it because HE wants to, but in the next breath he says I'm controlling him by saying no. WHAT GIVES???

I've tried to explain even before the infection that there are some nights that I just want to SLEEP (especially after working two jobs back to back), or that if we're going to do it, we need to start earlier than 1 AM because I have to work early the next day.

His response... "You think this is about ______ (derogatory word for intercourse), but you won't hear what I need..."

So is something wrong with my ears or am I dating an insensitive nymphomaniac?