So, you want to keep talking to a guy that basically has a neon sign over his head saying " I only want sex" and your a virgin and want to stay a virgin until marriage?

No offense meant .... but what do you bring to the table ? Everyone had baggage and issues, you don't have to answer that, just food for thought.

You mentioned your had previous relationships and engaged twice.... Were they all mutual breakups ?

My advice is don't talk sex stuff with someone until you actually get to know them and you both see a future together. Hell? You might hit date #3 and find out he has horrible table manners or something.

Myself I would stop looking for a partner online, doesnt seem to be working for you. Why not join some groups or volunteer , that would allow you to find other people in person... just get to know them ....not actively look for a dateable guy.

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