Hello Crook32: I'm sorry you are having such a difficult time. The Skeezyks doesn't really have any useful suggestions to offer. In reading your post, it seems like you pretty-much laid out the options.

Back in the day, as they say, there was a music group that called themselves The Lovin' Spoonful. Perhaps you've heard of them? Anyway, they did a song titled; "Did You Ever Have to Make Up Your Mind". Here's a link to the song on YouTube, if you're not familiar with it:



Sometimes you just have to make up your mind... I send you my best wishes for a successful outcome.