I love the movie Clueless.

My t is rarely clueless... very rarely.... and when I point out her cluelessness she is humble about it and apologizes. Like starry said, sometimes it's like she reads my mind. (In fact, she has said that sometimes she thinks she 'hears' my psyche and I believe that.) Her latest bit of clueless was just this past Saturday, we were talking about my grandmother and how I was feeling kinda 15 again when I sent her those emails the previous week, and she asked what happened when I was 15. I said that was when my grandma died. (which has come up many times before.) BUT she has remembered far, far, far more than she has ever forgotten (even things I have forgotten telling her!) so I gave her a pass on this one and didn't mention it. I started to get upset about it, but that was when I remembered just how much she does remember and I let it go.