I am so sorry. I know the feeling, having been through a bad patch of departures in a short time frame. It was good that your one therapist gave you a heads up. Mine called me to let me know about a pdoc's death, which really helped, but then I kept getting several death notice letters from the pdoc's office with alarming text in caps, directing me to locate someone else, with a countdown of remaining days to act. Something about those letters, and the urgency/coldness, set something off in me. I ended up going med free, which has actually been a good thing.

My therapist said the many letters were probably because they did not want a lawsuit over something called continuity of care, so that tells me that you have a legitimate complaint because you did not even get a notice.

I think many people in institutional settings have d i d. It was very kind of your therapist to read to people there. I bet she would do that for you, if you asked.