I don't mind them not remembering -I don't remember what they look like after I leave. I do mind them guessing wrong. Don't guess - just admit you have a memory like a sieve and go on. Guessing wrong really pisses me off.

And I certainly don't go to one of them to let them think they get to put me through a mental gymnastics course or surprise anything out of me.
Luckily, for all the traps the woman has tried to snare me in, I can avoid those two quite easily.