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Old Sep 07, 2016, 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by defyinggravity65 View Post
I am in a great relationship with my boyfriend but...
It doesn't sound like a great relationship. I am quite certain he has some good qualities, otherwise you wouldn't want to continue the relationship.

I was also in a relationship with a man who drank heavily. It did not end well.

Unless he is motivated to change drinking or anything, really, he isn't going to change. You can't fix him. I am sorry I cannot be more positive about the future of your relationship with him but my experience says to leave now and don't waste more of your life in a bad relationship.
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