I think most of us women can commiserate about period sex (no) and for goodness sakes, you have an infection, what is he thinking??? Just...no. There is NO reason he should expect you to cause further harm to your reproductive health by having sex when you aren't healthy...I find that beyond disrespectful...that's someone who has no care whatsoever about you, your body and your health. He sees your body as his possession, the object by which he takes care of himself. You need to reconsider how this man treats you and whether or not this is something you can continue to live with.