thank you friends
I'm flying back to Philly tonight. Apparently he is recovering well from the biopsy/tumor removal (there are still two more). He is sitting in a chair, eating, and talking. Not bad for 84.
I had my 12-week ultrasound on Wednesday and I was so excited to tell him about his grandchild - it was amazing watching the baby moving around - could see all of his/her fingers, toes, and even the nose! But he was falling asleep on the phone and he didn't seem to comprehend what I was saying, which gave me weird flashbacks to when my mom was dying (I was 14) and it made me really sad.