Thank you so much. That was so helpful to read about your own experience. That sounds so hard. I can't imagine what it felt like to hope she would change and never find that she did. Wow. I've been seeing my T for about 3.5 years and I really hope this issue doesn't come between us. That's what I'm scared of, things never being the same. But right now I don't feel secure in the relationship so I guess I have to get the message across somehow. I will tell her I'm feeling weird about it. Thank you again.