Thank you for the input annielovesbacon and Echos Myron.

The fact that she may see him on Tuesday and get a "nice job on your yoga" high-five and then see me on Thursday where I describe feelings or the many issues I have with what happened seems like a major conflict of interest. I don't know the answer, but when I put that question to her, on how I am supposed to deal with her seeing him and continuing to take me seriously, she will need to provide a damn good answer. I don't know what answer that is, but it better be good. Otherwise I will need to go.