Lol yeah....my life is pretty much an open book. Keeping myself closed back in the day led to my drinking problem, and we don't that again hahaha. So I'm pretty open as far as what I have to share if it can help someone else.

Sometimes the cramps can help a little.....tee hee at least as far as one time with bf, he had a cramp suddenly in his ab and moved just slightly to the side and I was like WHOOO HOOO!!!!! LOL!!!!!

Sex is tricky though for those of us with physical ailments, thats for sure.....I've come to find out that a loving and caring partner makes all the difference. My boyfriend doesn't push me to do anything thats painful and that is so imporant.

I have a question....its kind of off topic but since this is a fairly personal type thread I'm gonna go for it. How can I let my boyfriend know that I need more foreplay? We kiss a lot and kind of grind on each other and it works, gets me hot and bothered, but I like to be "touched" before hand. Its almost like he doesn't like to use his hands. In the beginning he did, but thats kind of tapered off. I even remember asking him in the beginnning if he wasn't a boob man cuz he didn't touch them, and he told me that he didn't know if he should because we were still new and hadn't had sex yet. Should I just say something?? Whats the best way to go about that? I've tried touching him to kind of hint, but he doesn't take the hint haha. Suggestions?