I had a dream, maybe 10 months into seeing current T where I borrowed a book from him called "How to Talk About Sex in Therapy". I took this as my unconscious telling me the time was right, so I told him about the dream and started to discuss it. I've taken it quite slow so there's a lot more to discuss, but we're headed in the right direction. He knows how hard it is for me and never pressures me to talk about anything I'm not comfortable with.