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Originally Posted by leomama
Lol! My ex was so utterly broken when I met him, he was a totally lapsed Catholic, bipolar, substance abusing alcoholic . The people in my first community had no clue I was the one who was carrying my ex and it makes me angry to think about it now.
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That sounds sufficiently infuriating.
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Originally Posted by leomama
Oh yeah. I know somebody who tells me they don't feel resentment . I'm like, really? Then I feel like putting them down . It's a horrible bond to be in. What would you do?
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If I really have a bone to pick with someone, I set them up so I can put them down and get away with said put down. If it was about someone claiming to never feel resentment I would manipulate them until they caved and did say that they were very resentful, preferably getting them to hurl some sort of verbal abuse at me... and if I can pull this in public, even better. I'd set them up to snap and lose their temper at me so any onlookers would see them as unstable as all I was doing was just talking after all.