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Originally Posted by leomama
Boundaries are not set, they are values. That's a common mistake. They aren't for the other person, they are for us.
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It is a common mistake when a person is learning to set values they over-do-it and can build fortress' instead. This comes from not having expressed values in place or not knowing how to assert ones self for example. Boundaries are an expressed set of values which are learned ideally from their parents, but that is not what this thread is about. This thread is about symptoms of PD's being masked as boundaries.