probably 6 years. My sex life wasn't an issue I wanted to discuss with T. However, hubby wanted me to. Never really intended to bring the subject. One day T had planned for us to have a 2 hour session do to issues going on. I was exhausted about 3/4 of the way to and made a bad joke about my lack of sex life. She questioned my comment. We discussed it briefly then tabled it until the next session. At that session we discussed it briefly but I decided I wanted to change the subject. She tried at a few other sessions to bring up the topic but I really didn't engage.